
There is a photographer her name is Cyndi B. We have to create our own opportunities just to get noticed. Also with this, you can’t get mad when someone else takes your idea (even if you don’t tell them about it) and executes it. I can have an idea to open a food truck but if I don’t execute that idea into reality all I have is an idea. I have ideas all the time but executing them is the hardest thing ever. Can they execute the plan? Strategy and execution are what manifest a dream into a reality. People buy from people they like…remember that.Īnyone can come up with an idea. Either that or they are haters and that happens too. People have to like you to follow you and hang on to every word you say. Sometimes people can be overconfident about things and then they get a bap when things don’t go as planned. It’s in their head and they it will somehow magically make money fall.

I know a lot of people who have mad confidence but they aren’t doing anything with it but being confident. The audacity!Ĭonfidence is nice, but it doesn’t pay the bills. People will get mad that you aren’t playing the supporting role in their life anymore and be mad at you for making your life the main role. When you decide to buck the system there will be people in your life who won’t support you, even though you supported them. I have been called bougie before and I’m like girl you don’t even know me. Being called bougie can be an insult to some because who wants to be known for being bougie. Creating an air of wealth even if it’s not true. What does bougie mean to you? I think bougie to me means someone who shows off their expensive stuff to others all the time and pushing their lifestyle in your face no matter what. Are you willing to get out of your comfort zone?Īnyone who says their bougie probably isn’t. It could be the very thing that takes me from she is ok to wow I didn’t know that about her I must hire her today. What are you uncomfortable doing? I know I’m uncomfortable on camera. Maybe you can get to know your coworkers and how they do things outside the job that will help you handle them when on the job.īeing comfortable with being uncomfortable is a hallmark of every successful person’s trajectory.

Maybe you can showcase another skill that you can bring to the table.

Shared extracurricular stuff goes further than your work sometimes. For example, if your job says we are having bowling night go and have bowling night. You can actually go further if you do stuff outside of your job with others in your job. Sometimes relationships take place outside of the workplace. Don’t assume because a lot of times you can be mad for no reason or be dead wrong about something you thought was said. When I send an email off especially when it comes to business I always say if I didn’t make sense let me know and we can hop on a call to clarify something. Ask for clarification! Even when we email a lot can be left to the imagination. Do what you feel is best for you and keep it moving.ĭon’t assume what someone means when they say something or nothing. If someone is vaccinated and you don’t agree with it what does that have to do with you it’s their body. If someone is not vaccinated don’t be around them and don’t let your kids go to school. With all this vaccine and unvaccinated stuff going around this is the perfect example of how what others do have nothing to do with you. What others say and do has nothing to do with you. Here are the lessons I learned from Bevy Smith. Y’all…this book was AMAZING! I learned so many lessons and I want to share a few that I highlighted from the book.

The book caught my attention because of the wordplay on her name so I thought why not get the book. Sorry I know I should have but I’m not into fashion at all so while I may have seen her on something I never really knew who she was. A few weeks ago I came across Bevelations: Lessons from a mutha, auntie, and all-around badass. My system is this…read before bed (instead of watching tv) My goal is to read at least a chapter a night. I am trying to read at least 2 books a month.
